Wednesday, November 4, 2015

Buttons Diapers Review

Well it is official we are buttons diapers fans!





The best way I find to truly decide if a diaper is true love is to run it threw my night only test. Buttons sent me a hemp insert. And let me tell you it ROCKS!We have used it for a solid month, mostly at night. One insert last lil miss E 12 hours. This is a size small and it does its job. The insert becomes saturated but we have had zero leaks! it is also topped with fleece.





You may notice we get a great fit. It is also very attractively trim. And the print is gorgeous!


The double leg gussets not only help catch any crazy poo messes, but they also offer a better range of adjustablity!


These diapers are also tough, but soft. the double layer of waterproof does not hinder the flexibility of the diaper. I find a diapers ability to mold to my baby super important and this diaper hits the nail.

The only minor complaint I could come up with is the inserts fold a bit in on them selves. However this is not the first diaper I have had do so. I remedy the issue but rotating the insert each use. I also make sure to flatten it out as I put it on baby.



Buttons Might be right for you if.......

  1. You prefer a AI2 or AI1 or cover system.
  2. You love unique fun patterns.
  3. Need a great adjustable and contouring diaper.
  4. You find you need a tough diaper.
  5. You want lots of absorbency choices.


Wednesday, October 7, 2015

Mombo, Boppy and My Breast Friend- What nursing support is right for you?







One of the top items you will use after having a baby is your nursing support pillow. For many years Woman have used their standard bed or couch pillows or even nothing at all. But the last decade have been a blessing to new moms and we have other options.

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The Boppy

My personal Favorite is the Boppy pillow.
It is versatile soft and last! There is nothing super special about the basic U shape pillow. However, it does offer the best support. Boppy pillows are nice and plump giving mom the best support to have baby at breast level. I love the U shape. I turn it side ways, in on my hip, when I need extra back support. I have found this simple design to be most comfortable for me in terms of nursing.

In addition to being a great nursing pillow it can double as a baby item. The pillow offers great support for a tummy time support or as sitting support. Although Boppy does not recommend sleeping in the boppy when not properly accessorized Both My older children do use their boppy every night. Our oldest is 5 years old! 



The mombo

With little Miss E I bought a mombo. Although she too has a Boppy now. I used it for awhile as a traveling nursing pillow. For at the grandparents. It is the same idea as the  Boppy, but there are a few differences. The mombo is not as bulky, it has a more slim and contoured design. For me this did not get baby boosted as high as I personally needed. Th cushion is fabulously soft but this does make baby sink in. The pillow will still function as a nursing pillow and tummy time pillow but does not offer enough support to use as a sitting support. My favorite feature was the vibration. I would support my back with it while side laying and the vibration did wonders on my sore sciatic. 




My Breast Friend

This pillow has a few unique features. First it has a buckle. That means you get a custom fit! You can even use it while standing. The back support also supports a little higher the the front of the pillow. The pillow itself however is about as think as the mombo which again for me is a little slim. The pillow is consistent in padding. It also features a pocket which is great for many uses. Sadly this really cant be used for just baby it is only for a nursing support. 



There really is no best pillow. What is most important is finding a pillow that is right for you. So shop around a bit and try out each.  You may want to wait for baby to come, or go shopping with a large doll to give you a good idea how each feels. 

Good Luck and Happy Nursing!

Friday, August 7, 2015

Talking to your boss about lactation breaks and maternity leave.

So your about to take your leave and before you go you need to have one of the most important conversations of your life.


I want to help take some of the stress out of the conversation.
Thanks to the new healthcare reform this conversation should go easy. Here are a few steps to take. 



Know your stuff. Google both your state laws and Federal laws. Starting the conversation by saying "I know that...."  Will get the conversation going in a good direction. Your employer will have a hard time cheating you if you already know the law.

Have a plan. Come up with a simple plan and present it to your employer. Leave room for compromise and work the deal together. Try to work in a line that says that as your needs change your break times do as well.

Write an email. After you strike your deal recapping what you discussed so there is documentation.



If you are worried about talking about leave here is the deal.

Most Managers are being taught to be very careful because pregnancy is a protected status. Just as no one can fire you for being a woman, You can not be fired simply because you are pregnant. 9 of 10 employers are going to help accommodate you in the work place. What that will look like in each work place will vary. The good news here is that  having a conversation about leave is usually easy. And most managers are happy for you.

If you are having trouble the best place to turn is the department of labor.

Most important thing is to do your research and know your rights, and do what is best for you and baby.